Thank you for being with me. I am looking forward to sharing what’s been unfolding. I was waiting to do so until I had the container. This space can hold disparate elements in a multitude of media. It feels good to be emerging here.
I want to share a poem with you.
May it bring comfort.
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Grief is Love
by Rachel Kann
All of it is love.
Every memory,
the fragility,
the frailty,
all that is lost, the ravage of humanness, all its limitations, the hand-in-hand, the mystery, the breath, the crossing of oceans, the returning, the giving away, and every bit of laughter, even the bickering, the aliyah, the little one you were, the way your birth was a miracle that changed everything— all of it is love. The precise moment words and exhalation and suffering are done— all of it is love. The awakening from dreamless sleep, the momentary respite, and then the flood of remembrance, the ache in your chest, and yes, even that relief— all of it is love. The wondering, the evening, something in the distance growing smaller, its disappearance beyond the horizon, the setting sun, the black night filled with starlight, and the little flickering flame, and then darkness, and then the sun rising again— all of it is love. And it is in the brightness of your smile (which will, soon enough, come more easily again,) it is written in your fingerprints, it reverberates in the rhythm of your blood, it is what you are made of, it is this interweaving of sweetness, it is what is found in stillness. You are surrounded by a swirl of presence, which is a familiar comforting scent, which is a hum, which is a gentleness which will never leave you. It will never leave you. It is promised, and all of it, all of it is love.
❤️
This is such an incredible piece. Grief, our friend, enemy, silent one, wrenching one that so many shy away from has been shed in a profound and potent light. Thank you. I keep coming back to this and shared it with my beloved who works intimately with grief every day.
Loved it! Totally agree...one of my favorite Jewish sayings is that on Purim, you get so drunk you can't tell Haman from Mordecai...or everything is everything...